Sunday, October 30, 2011

Time Well Spent

In the grand scheme of things I have to say that I don't always spend my times in the most useful of ways. I have wasted many moments in worry and excessive driveness. Other moments spent on busy work. And still others in nothingness. On better days my thoughts and prayers seem meshed, I feel more aware of the necessary and practice being more deliberate with my choices.

This afternoon my time turned into profits unfortold. I had promised my son a hat for his Mario attire. He has been very patient. Definitely time well spent!!!



And these are the rewards (I think I may actually be enjoying the hat more than he is!);


Thursday, October 20, 2011

Happy Birthday Alexander!

Today is Alexander's eighth birthday!
We all just love him to pieces!!! We love his big smile, his quick laugh, his undying energy, his sense of humor.
He is a lot of fun.

Some favorite memories of this past year with him:

When we were traveling home from somewhere and this rank smell emerged in the van and one of his sisters said, it smells like someone farted hot dogs to which Alexander responded matter-of-factly, "well Dad farted and I just had a hot dog."

The other day while trying to get Halloween costumes ready, I mentioned that it might just be easier and cheaper to buy a costume for him. Alexander came up to me and looked into my eyes and said, "mom, don't spend too much on that because you still have to buy my sports equipment."

After he got glasses late in spring we had this staring thing going on as a family. Alexander didn't like the ogling, he never has. We were just trying to get used to each other again. At his piano lesson that evening I noticed his long gazes at me and I took his face in my hands and got quite emotional. Choking back the tears while cradling his face I asked, "What are you seeing differently? What are you seeing for the first time?" To which he replied,
"your face is so square!"

I love that he asks me so many hockey questions even though I'm still quite clueless in the hockey realm.

His spelling lists include all the names of hockey players! For fun he likes to write the names out on my back and I get to guess which NHL hockey player he just spelled out! (He's good at giving lots of hints!)

He still gives lots of hugs and kisses but not on the lips cause that's just gross!

Telling homemade bedtime stories at night.

Watching him dance. Watching him play sports.

Hearing him play and sing all his piano songs in different voices. My favorite right now is "Leftover Popcorn."

I love listening to him be a sports commentator as he plays mini sticks.

I love him!!

May God give you an amazing year being 8. May He continue the work He has already started in you.














Happy Birthday Alexander!

Today is Alexander's eighth birthday!
We all just love him to pieces!!! We love his big smile, his quick laugh, his undying energy, his sense of humor.
He is a lot of fun.

Some favorite memories of this past year with him:

When we were traveling home from somewhere and this rank smell emerged in the van and one of his sisters said, it smells like someone farted hot dogs to which Alexander responded matter-of-factly, "well Dad farted and I just had a hot dog."

The other day while trying to get Halloween costumes ready, I mentioned that it might just be easier and cheaper to buy a costume for him. Alexander came up to me and looked into my eyes and said, "mom, don't spend too much on that because you still have to buy my sports equipment."

After he got glasses late in spring we had this staring thing going on as a family. Alexander didn't like the ogling, he never has. We were just trying to get used to each other again. At his piano lesson that evening I noticed his long gazes at me and I took his face in my hands and got quite emotional. Choking back the tears while cradling his face I asked, "What are you seeing differently? What are you seeing for the first time?" To which he replied,
"your face is so square!"

I love that he asks me so many hockey questions even though I'm still quite clueless in the hockey realm.

His spelling lists include all the names of hockey players! For fun he likes to write the names out on my back and I get to guess which NHL hockey player he just spelled out! (He's good at giving lots of hints!)

He still gives lots of hugs and kisses but not on the lips cause that's just gross!

Telling homemade bedtime stories at night.

Watching him dance. Watching him play sports.

Hearing him play and sing all his piano songs in different voices. My favorite right now is "Leftover Popcorn."

I love listening to him be a sports commentator as he plays mini sticks.

I love him!!

May God give you an amazing year being 8. May He continue the work He has already started in you.

Saturday, October 8, 2011

The Gift of More

There are a number of words that come to mind when reflecting on the past month in our household;

change,

anticipation,

hard work,

emotions, (celebration/tears)

beauty,

rest. (And yes, beauty rest!)

If I had to choose one word to tie all these words together it would have to be 'togetherness' - not being or doing alone.

In the beginning of September, Pastor Delbert spoke a message of risk from the top of a "very-much-too-high-unstable-diving-board-platform." Even though I was too nervous to pay attention properly, the visual and the message were clear; Ask for help! Have people come alongside you praying for you, supporting you. I believe this to be true but don't always have the courage (and humility) to follow through when it means phoning, writing, emailing or texting, asking someone to do so.

As parents this fall we have walked through significant changes with our kids. We have literally walked to and from new places with our children, praying as we walked. We have peered anxiously through windows watching for their return so we could meet up and find out the progress of that day and event. We have cried together and celebrated together. Had movie or games night together. Ate together, both in celebration and comfort. We've trained, we encouraged, we've confessed.

It would've all been very hard alone.

It's easy to preach but not always easy to practice.

Over the past few weeks I have experienced the gift of more because of sharing with others. The gift of others speaking into a situation because they have walked alongside, really caring enough to entrust that situation to God with you. Of seeing more clearly with many eyes, of hearing more clearly with many ears.

Monday, October 3, 2011

Fall Study

For those of you in the area we are starting our Fall study this Wednesday night at 7pm at Eastview!

The study will be an in-depth look at the gospel of Luke and will run until the end of November (8 weeks.) Any adults are welcome to join us. We will have table groups available for women only, men only, and mixed.

Please contact us at ontomaturity@eastview.org if you are interested.

Would love to see you there!